A crazy little thing called love

And God said, Let us make man in our image after our likeness,so God created man in his own image.Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place and fashioned it into a woman and brought her to the man.
So if we are created for each other, a man for a woman and vice versa by a superior being which designed us in perfection why everything is so messed up between us?Did we evolved in a state of social incompatibility or are we missing a piece of the puzzle?

If you thing that the relationship between men and women is complex now days just wait to hear about Lilith.She was Adam's first wife(as referred in Jewish Mythology,in the Babylonian Talmud and from the same sources the bible comes from) .Yes you have read it correctly.She was created with the same soil as Adam,at the same time and way before Eve. Lilith left Adam after she refused to become subservient to him and then would not return to the Garden of Eden after she mated with archangel Samael.Sounds familiar?

So the first documented human relationship ends up in a divorce.

We now know,from a scientific point of view that love is an articulated mechanism designed by nature,involving human hormones, neurotransmitters and subconscious archetypes to help us mate and procreate for the continuous of the human species.We are love junkies.But eventually the effect wears off and usually we land in a reality that's far from our understanding of happiness.

So we have a design flaw(if you believe in creationism) and a functional one also(if you believe in evolution).Either way they both converge in a social first of an absurd explosion in divorces,alternative couples (gay and lesbian) and decrease in family sizes.

You tend to notice this strange effect in the most evolved parts of the global society.The more evolved we are, the greater becomes this man-woman incompatibility.So what's going on?

We live in strange times.It is easier today to buy a nanoscale superconductor which can compute one trillion instructions per second than find someone to love of to be loved.This is nothing less than a small demonstration of the enormous scale of our social and cultural handicapacity.Yes we are more advanced today in technology but we fell far behind in ethics and values,in personal and social culture ,we are living by poisoned principles.We are evolving in the wrong direction.

So is there eventually a crazy little thing called love.Yes there is and it is becoming one of the most rarest feeling to find and hold on.People just get together because they are afraid or they do not want to be alone,or because they are just used to live with someone ,so they continue to do so.When all these problems associated with everyday life in the end catch up,some people explode.Others get depressed or just unhappy.Remember that you will be in love only for one short period of time,then everything wears of.To love is to have a genuine need to share your life,or moments of it with a person that can be your best friend and something more.The person that will accept you for what you are,that will be willing to give and take,share,unify and create.But to find such a person you have to have ethics and values and he or she must share the same values with you.And you will be with this special one because you want to and not because you have to or told to.

We are stressed and depressed by a irrational consuming life that is eventually consuming us.Be modest and live with only what you really need.Use your experience to rehab from the hormonal love and try to see the person you have in front of you.Don't let the circumstances get a hold ,your happiness is unique and only you can make a choice.Adam did and lived a difficult life ,but at least with someone on his side my creationist friends.Your body needs the rhythmical release of hormones and neurotransmitters associated with living with the same partner,my evolutionary ones.Money,power,wealth and health mean nothing without this crazy little thing called love .Will you ever find it?I sincerely hope so.